I feel like I am a Superstar today. Once I got down my flight, I rushed for a meeting. Now I know how those Superstars feel when they were rushing for their concerts, press conferences, etc. -- tired, dizzy and hungry.
I know I had not been updating my blog for around 5 days. I was back in my hometown. Terrible things happened back at home. I feel so blessed that everyone was worried about me.
Like everyone else, family is the highest priority in my life. However, I am afraid that I am going to lose it. I wonder, how could one, who is going to be a grandfather soon, would go and have fun outside behind one's back. Yes, one can have fun but please, do not go out with one person but come back with two persons. Think twice. The opportunity cost for the 1-year-old-relationship is the 23-year-old-relationship.
Do not leave for the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one he/she loves.
You cannot have both at the same time as well because nobody would want to share one person with many. Tell me, would you want to share your undergarment with somebody else?
Below are the true statements that were said by the bitch to someone I love and cherish the most, my mum:
'You said I am prostitute. He comes and have fun with me. When he goes back, he had fun with you. You are also a prostitute.'
'He asked me chose that top you are wearing. I have the same top as yours. Mine is Orange and yours is Black. I chose Black for you because I think it suites you.'
'You leave his side, I also leave his side. You come back, I will come back too.'
'If he ever find another woman outside, I understand as it means that I am not good enough.'
'Do not quarrel with my husband anymore. If you quarrel with him again, I will come back to Malaysia. Once I come back, I will not leave his side anymore.'
Mum is not a spontaneous person and her reactions are slow. That was why she was being bullied to the hell.
I am not ashamed to share them here because I believe, such thing does happen in the society but we never know.
We, as their children, could not do much about it. This matter should be solved by themselves. No matter what the consequences are, both of them are still out parents. We cannot hate either one of them.
Those as the parents' parents (grandfathers and grandmothers), they cannot do much as well but puhlease, not this..
'Why do you want a divorce, huh? Is it because you have a man outside?'
Well, I can't say one is right and one is wrong. Both of them are to put to the blame because both of them are responsible of their relationship.
I really hope things will turn out to be on the bright side, rather on the dark one..