If you asked me what is the one thing I learnt the most from my previous relationship, I would say..
‘Don’t talk bad about your boyfriend/husband to anyone ever’
My older brother told me this YEARS ago.
He said the relationship he has with his girlfriend can maintain up until now is because they always talk good things about each other in front of their own respective friends.
We may be venting but our friends or others do not forgive and forget the things you say about your boyfriend or husband.
They do not love him like you do.
Generally the only way people know your boyfriend or husband is through you.
Build him up.