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Hello Again: Little Moments, Big Memories

Hi everyone. It’s been a while. Four years, to be exact.

The last time I wrote, I was three months pregnant, and then... silence. Well, here’s the answer: Little Chibi happened.

Max was born in November, the same month as me, and this month my Little Chibi turned four! He is now completely obsessed with Hot Wheels, Monster Trucks and dinosaurs. Every single day, without fail, he asks me, “Mommy, which is stronger, T-Rex or Rhinoceros?” (or whichever dinosaur or animal is on his mind that moment).

Motherhood swallowed up every spare minute I had. His first year was a hard battle against RSV, with hospital visits almost every month, so often that the hospital felt like his second home. (I’ll share more about that in a separate post.) The second year brought a different battle: constipation, and the doctor had us do enemas for three days in a row to flush everything out. The third year was all about keeping up with his unlimited energy. And now, in his fourth year, I’m slowly getting little pockets of my life back, and one of them led me right back here.

The blog quietly slipped down my list, but I never stopped missing it.

This little corner of the internet turns 20 next month. Two decades! I started it as a student in 2006, and it has followed me through friendships, relationships, graduation, Shanghai, travels, marriage and the long road to Little Chibi.

So here I am, picking up where I left off. I can’t promise a posting schedule, but I can promise to share the little moments, because they really do become the big memories.

Thank you for waiting.

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